Gemma
Growing up in a strict religious home, Gemma (she/her) didn’t think much about clothes. She wore whatever was practical, usually old, comfy things, and didn’t feel free to express herself. That changed when she came out as trans, and clothing became a big part of her expression.
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Gemma’s outfit of complementary colours, 2025. Select the image to learn more.
At first, Gemma was nervous to try new styles. It took her two months to even shop for clothes. During a sale at The Hub, a local thrift store, she found pieces she liked— colourful clothes that felt more like her. She wore her first fully chosen outfit to the Trans March at Ottawa Pride in 2023: a bold mix of purple and yellow that showed off her confidence, identity, and artistic flair with her understanding of colour theory.
She used to wear tight clothes to show changes from hormone therapy, but now she feels more relaxed in what she wears, like jeans, soft cardigans, and comfortable t-shirts. Her background in web design helps her match colours in fun, creative ways. She avoids brand names and prefers sharing clothes with friends instead of buying new ones.
Gemma’s go-to work outfit, 2025. Select the image to learn more.
Through thrifting, safe spaces like the Ottawa Trans Library, and kind friends who encouraged her to try new things, Gemma found a style that feels true to who she is. Now, she even helps others find clothes that make them feel good.
To Gemma, clothes are more than just fabric. They’re a way to say, ‘this is me’, without actually saying it.